One with a few words but giant vibes as we wrap up 2025.
Here’s a snackable truth: the calendar may be running out, but you’re not. You’re still moving—sometimes with momentum, other times like you’re dragging a mountain in some dusty, worn-out flip-flops.
Didn’t cross off all your finish lines? Shake it off, Luv. You’re exactly where you’re meant to be.
Read this if you feel behind (though you’re not).
- Not finishing every one of your passion projects this year? You’re not behind.
- Flipping from being a shopaholic, shoe addict, bag-ho (if you will), to pulling back from mindless consumerism? I’m clapping with you.
- Stepping away from friendships you thought were based on mutual values? Maybe uncomfortable, but that’s growth.
- Choosing rest when needed or wanted instead of running on someone else’s momentum? That’s a stellar win.
- Filling your life with more abundance instead of assignments? That’s both calculated and wise.
- Changing your mind about what you thought you wanted? Keep doing it. You’re allowed to evolve.
- Leaving space where quick answers used to live? You’re doing it right.
- Dropping bad habits and carrying the good ones forward? Absolutely fantastic.
- Resigning yourself to keep starting again, if you need to, judgment-free? Counts more than you know.
- Surviving the winter until the spring and summer months roll in? That’s all good too.
You don’t need to rush this season
I’m calling this an active change, and you’re allowed to keep going at this pace.
You don’t need to justify your pace. It’s time for you to enjoy this, and all the seasons—tied to a holiday or not.
Whether you think you’re late, or someone told you it’s late, it isn’t. You don’t owe anyone proof. And if they push it? Forget them.
We get to choose.
To change our minds.
To reshape what we want or what we can manage.
Kick the “Shit, I’m late” mindset hard on its entire arse.
And if it comes back up, kick it again. Hard.
Repeat until the heifer stays down.
If you even sense a hint of an “I’m late” sneaking in, replace it with “I’m becoming”.
That’s what I’m doing… so say it with me.
And keep saying it until it sticks.
