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    The Machine Is Learning: Letโ€™s Make Sure We Donโ€™t Stop

    Who remembers books? Just kidding! But alsoโ€ฆ not really.That mystical dimension before everything started finding us and we actually had to go looking for things. On the daily, I say something either out loud or just to me, within earshot of my phone, iPad, or laptop, and here goes my tech, serving up ads, articles, and videos of that thing to me all day long. I know the first few times that happened years ago, I probably thought it was luck. Nowadays we all know our devices are intentionally listening to us. Annoyingly so. Intrusively, even. And not to help us but to sell to us. And by ‘sell,’ I…

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    Andropause? Suddenly Menopause Doesn’t Sound So Lonely

    When the โ€œMan-Flashesโ€ Enter the Chat Ladies, Babes, Luvs, we need to talkโ€ฆ and now! I don’t know where I’ve been, but only recently did some little internet birdies clue me into the fact that something called andropause exists. Andropause? Whatโ€™s andropause, you say? In the simplest of words: Menopause for men, kinda. Not gonna lie, I did smirk a little. OK, beam with cheshire-cat full glee. We women, damn near since birth, have had all kinds of shit piled on us. Coming out of nowhere is what it feels like. Jumping us. Sneak-attacking us. Sliding in like skid marks. One minute weโ€™re playing as equals with the boys, then…

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    How to Keep Going When You Don’t Feel Like It

    Stick to Your Plan, Not Your Mood Well, confession time, for most of last week, I hadn’t worked out in literally five days. Including barely jumping on my rebounder. It was a busy week, it was a short week, and it was my birthday on Monday. Happy Birthday to Meeeeeee! Side note: My birthday year had already been off to a cracking start with ‘My Boys’, Arsenal, lifting the Premier League trophy just the month before. Yeahโ€ฆ I’ll absolutely take that lovely gift! โค๏ธ๐Ÿคโค๏ธ But back to this week, when the compressor thingamabob, whatchamacallit thing in our air conditioner unit broke, so it literally felt like I was sleeping in…

  • Woman, calm, in beauty, underwater, powerful, happy, A woman's happiness is her power

    As A Woman, Your Happiness Is Your Power

    Why some people get uncomfortable when women are happy. Tell me if this is something youโ€™ve noticed, suspected, or outright discovered, that thereโ€™s this special something about a rested woman. An unbothered spirit, a calm woman or even relatively steady woman that youโ€™d think everyone would celebrate. But apparently, according to some corners of these here interwebs and in real life too, a woman who is genuinely content can make far too many people uncomfortable… strangely angered even. Freaking funny, isnโ€™t it? Honestly, it’s a place I’d happily wallow in forever. But since life insists on life-ing, I’m learning to savor the moments, intentional and random, that I get to…

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    Need a Quick De-Stress From The Thanksgiving Crazy?

    Pause the pre-Thanksgiving Day madness for a few minutes. Grab a pen and play: Jump right to the SincerelyIreneB Thanksgiving word search, if you need to! I get it! Squat, Diddly, Me For some years now, Thanksgiving has been a little (read: a lot) more nontraditional in my world. I went from doing the whole feast, to a few side dishes, to doing squat โ€” as in diddly-squat, or squat-diddly, you choose. I donโ€™t cook a single thing. Not a turkey leg, not a pie (because I donโ€™t bake, but luckily my girls do), not even a wee pot of vegetables passes my hands. For me, Thanksgiving felt far too…

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    Splurge or Save? What’s the Best Choice for You?

    Random chats with friends often spin into the best convos. Case in point: my last trip home to London, soaking up some back home goodness and catching up with friends and fam, an interesting topic came up out of nowhere, it seemed. One of the crew brought his new-to-me boo, over my Bestieโ€™s place. Me and my US fam usually split our time home between my sisterโ€™s and my Bestieโ€™s pads. The day either of them start charging Airbnb rates, Iโ€™ll personally cry buckets in court and sue for emotional distress and abuse. Roll that โ€˜Help me, Iโ€™m poorโ€™ scene from Bridesmaidsโ€ฆ now picture me, every single time I travel…