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    Andropause? Suddenly Menopause Doesn’t Sound So Lonely

    When the โ€œMan-Flashesโ€ Enter the Chat Ladies, Babes, Luvs, we need to talkโ€ฆ and now! I don’t know where I’ve been, but only recently did some little internet birdies clue me into the fact that something called andropause exists. Andropause? Whatโ€™s andropause, you say? In the simplest of words: Menopause for men, kinda. Not gonna lie, I did smirk a little. OK, beam with cheshire-cat full glee. We women, damn near since birth, have had all kinds of shit piled on us. Coming out of nowhere is what it feels like. Jumping us. Sneak-attacking us. Sliding in like skid marks. One minute weโ€™re playing as equals with the boys, then…

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    As A Woman, Your Happiness Is Your Power

    Why some people get uncomfortable when women are happy. Tell me if this is something youโ€™ve noticed, suspected, or outright discovered, that thereโ€™s this special something about a rested woman. An unbothered spirit, a calm woman or even relatively steady woman that youโ€™d think everyone would celebrate. But apparently, according to some corners of these here interwebs and in real life too, a woman who is genuinely content can make far too many people uncomfortable… strangely angered even. Freaking funny, isnโ€™t it? Honestly, it’s a place I’d happily wallow in forever. But since life insists on life-ing, I’m learning to savor the moments, intentional and random, that I get to…