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    What Happens When You Avoid the Feedback You Need

    I donโ€™t even have all the feedback yet. Just little tidbits. A few comments dropped casually over WhatsApp on the opening pages. A clarification here. A question there. A pause. A โ€œWait, what did you mean byโ€ฆ?โ€ Enough to confirm a few things I was already side-eyeing, eye-rolling, and unhinged staring.Enough to make me feel a new kind of fear I didnโ€™t even know about. Last week I wrote about sending my paper-baby, virgin novel, Forget The Fairytale, to my beta readers. Letting go. Resisting the urge to tweak my work to death, even though I didnโ€™t have one more logical thing to give it. Giving it to other, yet trusted people and…