Last week, my baby girl turned 18. Like her sister, sheβs always been one of the youngest in their friend groups, so her βfinally turning 18β was a big deal for herβin more ways than one. And while I was right there with her, mostly, it took a little wind out of my seeing my forever baby girl officially become an adult. Ish. Just thinking about turning eighteen is that moment many of us imagine long before it comes. Imagining what this vision of βadult lifeβ is supposed to look like for us, from the TV shows, movies and books we consumed. Well, thatβs how I did it, anyway. Of…